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On Trust and Relations

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on Trust and Relations to others   I learnt to distinguish 3 categories of trust: capability trust character trust vulnerability trust  [empty category] Capability  trust is easy to comprehend, for example after seeing John’s work, what he can can do, and his credentials, I trust him as a master builder.  Professionally reliable. Character  trust is something we experience, for example, after years of going to same school and later serving alongside    Mary, I trust her with my kids and my money.  Reliable and responsible. Vulnerability  trust is the most difficult, it is the level where I can share a secret or expose a weakness of myself to another person.  Confidant / Confidante  نديم  -  نجى The draft graph is how the above relates to our relations with people around us.